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One day your WHY will help you to figure out that HOW!

No matter how skillful or under skill you are, if you have a dream you will get lots of success funda on internet or advise. Many will motivate you, many will discourage you. In fact there will be plenty of days when you are the most perfect person for that dream but you will feel that you can’t do it & you will quit.
There is nothing in the world which can’t be learned or can’t be achieved. Even the things which don’t exist now will going to be part of you or human in coming time & its not because some extremely skillful guy or team thought of it. It’s just because some crazy clearly see the possibility of it. So what is that one must have thing that make it possible?
I believe the only key thing you must have to achieve any dream is your WHY.  Rest all you will learn or get with time.
Your Why should be much much higher then How.
Your Why can’t be money, crave of name & fame or because everyone is doing it.
WHY must be soulful & crystal clear part of you. It should flow in your blood. It’s something you are willing to die for because the truth is the bigger your vision is the biggest challenge you will face. The struggle is almost like death experience or will be humiliating & tough that you will prompt to quit.
You will face confusions, failures, doubts, insult, crisis, hunger, pain, heartbreak & many thing which you never even imagine in your life. You will be left alone, abandoned on the path, You will be laughed as abnormal, crazy, stupid, boring, loser, etc..
You will fall not just one time might be ten, thousand or million time & every time you will have a thousand reasons to quit.
At that moment, only your WHY will keep you going. Your WHY will give you that one strong reason which fade away that thousand run away reason.
So you should figure out your WHY before anything.
& remember everything is possible. Failure is an important ingredient of success. No matter how tough it is, it is possible.
You can fly because some crazy person thought someday to make human fly, your nights are brighter because someone thought for more than moon light, you are connected to the world through the phone and internet because someone’s dream was to connect people, there are many examples. If they quit because of failure & being humiliated by mediocre, then you would not have these things.
Everything is possible. The bigger the dream the bigger the pain. But you got to keep moving even when you are bleeding, as one day the pain will vanish and dream will become your reality. One day you will get it, LIVE IT!
Don’t Quit. Believe in Yourself & Your Journey.
As one day your WHY will help you to figure out that HOW!
Live your Dream,
NitikaS
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This New Year Celebrate The Courageous YOU!!

2016 is a year full of shocks & surprises for all. It brought pleasure, fortune to some & hardship, failures to some. But we all have a big reason to celebrate last day of 2016 & new day of 2017.

Celebrate the courageous you because you stand despite of heartbreak, job stress, money crisis, ditches, investor issues, low sale, low volume, sinking biz, family issue, bad health, low marks, hard luck, jokes on your dreams; any of this or all of this.

Celebrate as You stand for you, your dream! You glued broken you to stand again, you showed guts to follow your heart, you trust your vision, you stayed honest in hardship, you didn’t pollute your soul, you stayed with dignity, you cared, you learn to progress, you groom self into a better person, you helped others & kept humanity alive, you make people smile while hiding your tears.  You should celebrate that every single step you took. It was super courageous & it deserves a standing Applause. The whole universe celebrates the power & courage you showed to stand. Take a bow & pat yourself for that. This hardship will pay off  in the future for sure. Celebrate the Courageous You!

Celebrate the success & fortune you get. Your hard work payed off. Celebrate all failures & struggles to get this success. It took alot to be here!

So, no matter who you are, Celebrate self.

Remember one thing, when the whole world was out, you stayed to build. God needs this courage to make the better world.

Welcome New Year with the Hope & True believe that it will bring all you need to live happy & prosperous life.

Smile, take out the campaign/ beer/coke/tea/ coffee &  Raise the toast for self!

Thank you so much god, universe, parent & all of you for making me better person.  Thank you my inner self for letting me realize the power of self. Thank you 2016 for helping me to learn all I should to build a great future. Thank you very much 2016.

Dear 2017 Life I’m ready. I’m ON for you!

Let’s create history together!

I warmly Welcome you 2017!

Cheers !!

 

You were born into greatness!

You were born into greatness.
No evidence exists to suggest otherwise.
But the chattering voices of critics and cynics may have made you forget how powerful you are.

You are a lion, not a sheep.
You are a victor, not a victim.
You are a leader, never a follower.
Within you lives vast reservoirs of beautiful creativity.
Potential so bright it blinds my eyes.
Bravery so heroic it inspires our hearts.

It’s time to remember how powerful you are.
Failure may cross your path.
It is simply training for your strength.
Doubt may enter your mind.
That’s just a test to see how much you want your dreams.
Apathy may set in. Action is your antidote.
No matter what, relentlessly move ahead.
Because this is your time. Now is your moment. Today is your day.
And our world demands that you rise to your best.
So you model the acute possibility your life was designed to be.
And when you win, your example will bring the rest of us with you.
And when you fly, you’ll give the rest of us our wings as well.

Together, we all are making our world a better place!

Your Fan,

NitikaS

Note: This is a beautiful note written by Robin Sharma, Motivational Speaker I follow. Robin, Thanks for sharing man 🙂 I liked it so much that i can’t stop myself from sharing with people who really need to know themselves rite now.

We all need to find power inside us & we also need to make other powerful. We are human & its our responsibility to treat all with empathy & humanity. Lets motivate people to do their best.

A little help, a little support can actually change someone world! Think about it!

Lets make world better & happy place for all!

Never ever give-up!

If you have a strong dream & have one crystal clear goal in Life. If you feel that you are meant to be something. If you can sense the god plan for you. Don’t ever worry about Detour. It happens to everyone. If you check out history of most successful people ever exist on this earth, you will actually find that detours, bloopers & setbacks. Every History creator face that and very bad one! But they still make things work because they believed in themselves & Never give-up! They never give-up on their dreams, they never give-up on learning, they never give-up in any form even if the heaven fell on them.

You should not lose your confidence, your connection with your inner self, your connection with your Life Road Map & your connection with God.

Life simply test you in every sense before giving you what you actually deserve & what actually you are made for.

Just remember two things in life:

  1. There is no dead-end in life, but if you ever feel so just take a U-turn & find the new road to make things work. You always have an Option.
  2. The only person you ever need to convince, motivate & push to follow your dream is the person you meet every day in your mirror.

Just believe in yourself. You are born different & blessed with immense super power. You have all you need, including capabilities to gain/ arrange what you don’t have.

Never ever give-up to detours, bloopers & setbacks!

No matter how bad you feel, how sick you are, how dull you are… Stand up & show that you are meant for your goal. You are meant to be The Best!

Focus on your dreams, focus on what you are born for!

– NitikaS

Be Santa & Spread Smiles!!

In this chilly winter, Be Santa to needy people, donate woolens & save lives.  Lots of people die because they can’t buy basic woolens to protect self & family from chilly winters. Help those needy people.

We all have super power to spread smiles & take away pains of others. It’s just up to us whether we want to do so or not. For helping people we don’t need to have big pockets, power, links, etc. We only need to have Big Human Heart!

Hope you all will do something this festival for needy people & spread the cause!!

Be Generous, Be Human & Be Santa! Help People & Spread Smiles!

Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!

 

“Himmat Karne Walon Ki Haar Nahi Hoti” – Motivational Poem

My fav Motivational poem:

“Himmat Karne Walon Ki Haar Nahi Hoti”IMG-20141026-WA0000

Lehron se dar kar nauka paar nahi hoti
himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti

Nanhi cheenti jab daana lekar chalti hai
chadhti deewaron par sau baar fisalti hai
Mann ka vishwas ragon mein saahas banta hai
chadh kar girna, gir kar chadhna na akharta hai
Akhir uski mehnat bekar nahi hoti
koshish karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti

Dubkiyan sindhu mein gota khor lagaata hai
ja ja kar khaali haath laut aata hai
Milte na sahaj hi moti paani mein
badta doogna utsaah issi hairaani mein
Mutthi uski khaali har baar nahi hoti
himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi hoti…

Asafalta ek chunauti hai sweekar karo
kya kami reh gayi dekho aur sudhaar karo
Jab tak na safal ho neend chain ki tyago tum
sangharshon ka maidaan chhodh mat bhago tum

Kuch kiye bina he jai jai kaar nahi hoti
himmat karne waalon ki haar nahi ho

English Translation of Poem:

The boat that qualms the waves
Never gets across
The mind that dreads and dares
Has never been at loss
The tiny ant, when it carries the grain
Lays it up into the heights of the wall
Falls slipping a hundred times,
Just as it tries again
The faith in the mind
Stirs courage in the nerves
It soars and slips, then slips and soars again
Until its efforts have not been in vain

The diver who scrounges deep into the oceans
Comes bare in his fist a number of times
It is not so painless
Each time he delves to hit upon a pearl
Someday, when out of those deep seas he whirls
And in surprise, that his efforts have brought
Glad, for his fist is not empty everytime
And in him that seamless effort
herald a cheery chime

O’ accept the failures that cross your way
They are just the challenging mile-stones
And build from right here, where you fell
Until all the shortcomings cease,
And you soar in success
Burn restful sleeps in the sacrificial pyres
Until tireless struggles brought smiles of joy
Oh! Do not run away from the battlefields
For triumph always yields such joy
Just after relentless endeavors.

Poem Written By Harivansh Rai Bachchan

 

Help people, it makes you feel good inside.

I’m so proud to be part of family where each one is trying to do something good for Humanity. I’m proud to be part of family that try to do something good for people not out of compulsion but by heart and take out their time to do something which can add value to people life.

My Dad always work to develop villages & tribal people, promote education, hygiene, provide water, good food & better facilities to people,  helps farmers for better production & selling of grains, arranged so many camps like eye camp, blood donation camps, health camps education & skill camps. So many that I even can’t count.

My Dad recently become president of Lions club & he is going to arrange so much to develop poor people in Rajasthan, India.

My mom support him & all of us to do all such activities, suggest best camps to arrange & help people while camps. My mom is part of dad club & support him in promoting & successfully arranging such good camps & activities.

My sister is a doctor & she can work in big hospitals but she choose to work for village people and always promote health, hygiene to those people. She arranged various free camps & campaign to help poor people. Jiju & Dad along with entire family help her in getting these camp arranged.

My Jiju (Brother in law) run his business but always arrange blood camps, water, education & other camps with his JCI club. My Jiju & Sis work with their club to promote such activities. My Jiju support me in my women empowerment programs. He also support Dad, Mom, Sis & bro in their work.

My brother runs his software business but he helps Dad in his works and support me in running Self Defense Programs for making women self equipped & self-dependent. He help me in promoting a safer world for women. He run fitness club to promote good health to people.

I’m Entrepreneur & run various business. But I also run Women Empowerment Programs, Self defense programs for women, promote education to poor people in Gurgaon, Skill poor to have better living, help old age people to have happy life, work with old age homes & orphanage. I run free self-defense workshops for school children across country. In college as a NSS head arranged so many camps. I run motivational blog & online counseling services to help people in their bad days & help them to achieve their goals in life. I try to promote as much as I can. Now i’m becoming Organ Donor.

We all donate blood every year & promote Organ donation. We feel so good.

Even we are damm busy in our work, business & life but we make sure to take out time for such things. We as a family and as a human know that we have responsibilities towards our society, our planet & humanity. We try to play our little part with full responsibility to make happy world for all.

Seriously proud to be part of such family.

Hope every family do that & make a better world.

I remember blood donation ad line “kar ke dekho, achcha lagta hai” (Do it, you will feel good)

I request you guys to do something, may be a little bit to add life & add something to Humanity.

– NitikaS

As a Woman

I see people talk about woman empowerment in corporate & social world. Lots of campaigns run around same subject but still find news full of crime against woman.  As a corporate & social woman, I believe that the woman empowerment practices will be more successful if we are treated equally.  I’m sure, many of the women & even men across globe agrees with this. I guess all woman want to say this to all man:

Dear Man,

As a Woman, We don’t need special status, reservation, special treatment or special favors. We just need equal status & equal chance.

As a Woman, we don’t need your sympathy nor need your special attentions. We need our Brilliance,  Excellence, Hard work & Passion to get acknowledged & noticed over our Beauty or Body.

As a Woman, we can take out 48 hour from that little 24 hours & we are happy with that. We are happy to be your life, mother, wife, sister, daughter, best friend & lover but we are simply not ready to be something more just because we want to be big.

As a Woman, we are just not ready to spread our legs to spread our reach, get big status or to expand our bank balance. We don’t treat man as part of our Financial or Career Plan because we believe in our potential and we request you not to expect from us that way.

As a Woman, we want to be treated equally on the basis of our Mind, Energy, Capabilities, Hard Work & Intelligence.

As a Woman, we are emotional but when it comes to crisis or tough conditions, we are the one who stand by you, become your support & source of strength. We are much tougher than you think.

As a Woman, we just need to be treated as a Human and not as a part of joke or pleasure.

As a Woman, we can make your world more Beautiful & make our planet more Prosperous. We just needed to be treated in Right Manner.

As a Woman, we have power to nurture & grow the life. And we know that without us you just cant survive & nor the human species but we are still humble & take this god power with Full Responsibility.

As a Woman, we know & are confident that we are Talented, Bold, Sharp, Intelligent enough to handle Business in the better way and at the same time are Emotional, Caring & Lovable enough to handle your world beautifully.

As a Woman, We just request you to take off your X-Ray Specs and look us from the bigger, healthier & better version of you. We are great partners, coworkers, friends, family & Above all great Human.

As a Woman, We just want you to treat us fairly & behave with us as ‘A Real Man’. In our words, we just want you to be ‘The Gentleman’.

With Hope,

Woman

 

 

Energize Your Life & Live It to the fullest!

People say Life is to live but you know,  to live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people just exist, that is all.

Life is the most beautiful gift by god. It’s a miracle! Life is not just to born, grow and die; it’s more than that. We all come here with a special purpose, we need to find our purpose & live it.

Life is to Enjoy, Live, Cherish and Love Every Moment. Life is to energize your every moment & channelize positive energy to live Happy & Purposeful Life.

So question is how to energize it, live it fully & make it Purposeful? Here are some ways out:

  1. Love Yourself: You are born as an individual; god gifted you this beautiful life, so Love Yourself. You have to learn to love yourself before loving others.  It doesn’t mean being selfish, It means to praise, adore or respect yourself enough so that you can stand for yourself in every situation. It’s very important to love self & it helps you in dealing with life in better manner.
  2. Find Purpose: Everyone on this earth is born for a special purpose, find your purpose & live it.
  3. Believe/ Trust Yourself: Be Confident & Trust Yourself. It’s the key for happy & successful life. If you believe in yourself, you can achieve anything in Life. You have all you need including capabilities of having what you don’t..Trust Yourself! Believe Yourself that you can! And you will see everything will fall into place.
  4. Live in every moment: Every moment is precious & it will never come again. Don’t put off living to next week, next month, next year or next decade. The only time you’re ever living is in this moment. So Enjoy every moment, you are the one who make it beautiful.
  5. Be Positive: No matter how hard & panic situation is… try to remain positive. Remember No condition is permanent & time will pass. So stay positive & enjoy both your Happy & Sad Days! You have to go through bad time & it’s entirely your choice either to waste it with negative feelings & being sad or take a courage to be positive & change it as soon as you can.
  6. Stay Healthy: Your body is the only place you live in, so take good care of it. Nothing can be done with bad health neither work nor enjoyment. So do workouts, eat healthy food, laugh a lot, pamper your skin at parlors & spa’s & do whatever you want to do to stay healthy & glowing.
  7. Be Emotionally Wise:   You need be extremely wise when it comes to dealing with people. No matter whether its real or virtual/online personal or professional relationship/dealings, you need to learn the art of understanding & dealing with emotions & mind of individual.                                                                                                                          a) You should be wise enough to understand your & people feelings, body language, moods, likes & dislikes.                               b) This is world of virtual relationship & people can easily trick you into something called non repairable damage, you have to be extremely smart while getting into any virtual / online friendship or dealings. Be emotional smart & see across the game before getting into anything serious.                                                                                      c) Take workshops for emotional intelligence or read EI books & follow this blog. Interpersonal skills & right amount of emotions will help you to live successful & happy professional & personal life.    
  8. Work where your heart is: Search for your passion & work on it while keeping purpose of life in mind. It will help you to reach your goals, live successful happy life & do wonders. Don’t compromise your dreams on short-term gains. Live your dreams!
  9. Rise in Love: Fall in love is not worth it. You should always rise in love. I agree, love can happen with anyone but proceeding in love and changing your & other life is in your hand. Learn the difference between love, lust, infatuation & liking. Sometimes we mix these & get into dark zone. One sided love is never successful, so if its one-sided then try to divert it into good friendship else you will be in mess. Don’t worry life will bless you with someone who will love you. Never let anyone steal your thunder & your charisma. If someone truly loves you, they will be with you & always help you to rise. 
  10. Stay Strong: Don’t let situation make you weak. Always remember weak person is the most vulnerable person. Be Determined & Stay Strong.
  11. Stay Focused: Focus on Purpose of life, divide your Life goal into small goals, take small steps but with full focus on your Life Goal. & pamper yourself as you achieve your milestones, it will help you to remain motivated.
  12. Stay Content: Take what makes you happy & help you to have better life. Don’t be a garbage bag of unnecessary thoughts, worries, negative feelings, negative comments, etc. Make your Mind Virus/ Hackers free & take only positive & good things.
  13. Surround yourself with positive people: It will channelize positive energy and make life more beautiful.
  14. Compliment & Praise: Compliment & Praise yourself and people. It’s the must thing.  Everyone wants compliments & love being praised. Sometime a simple compliment makes people day. So do that without missing a single chance. It will help you stay happy & motivated and also help in bonding with yourself & people.
  15. Last but not the least, Be best version of yourself! No matter who you are, how you look, what you do & what you are going through. Always carry best of yourself: your attitude,  sound mind, smile & good heart.  Be Yourself & show the best of your version! 

Cherish your life every moment & be the star of your movie that’s the key to energize your life.

Life is too short to wait for rain to stop. Go Enjoy Dancing in the Rain & Live Your Life at Fullest!

Enjoy & Take Care,

NitikaS  

Importance of Guru.

I realized the importance of Guru(Teacher) in Life…

I realized, if you have a right person who understand you, can feel your every thought, every dream and groom you to be The Best…You can become anything you dream of may be Business Tycoon, Best Sportsperson, Best Star, Super Model, Best Writer, etc, etc .. Anything and Everything in any field you ever wished for.

All you need is strong will, determination and a right person to guide you to reach you to the Top.

You need to search your Alchemist who can groom you & make you billion dollar baby!!

– NitikaS

Helpful Steps to Live your Purpose & have THE ULTIMATE LIFE!

I thought for so many days what should I write in next article? So many topics going in mind but i was not able to finalize the one I should write & add-on something good to your life. Then I realized that the answer lies within my question, within my confusion. And I decided to write on the topic which is actually the purpose of this blog, which I actually want to give you: help to make rest of  your life the best of your life.

This article is inspired by my Counseling, Coaching Experience & lots of motivational bestseller books worldwide.

So here is my article to live your purpose & have The ULTIMATE LIFE. Follow these basic steps in various list of exercises & get what you want in Life!

Let’s Start

Get in the dark room or room with less light, close your eyes & think deeply what is your purpose of life? Are you able to give best to your purpose of life? Are you be able to be the person you actually want to be? Forget about what other say, it may be your parent, siblings, friends, gf/bf, spouse, colleague, any damm people exist in your life, Just forget everyone for this very moment & Just ask yourself, Are you the person you actually want to be? Are you able to match upto your own expectation, own dreams? Are you actually proud on self? Are you confident on your decisions? Are you able to live fearlessly with no pressure, no dramas of life, no pretending, nothing Just Proudly as YOU? Are you the source of inspiration to someone? Are you ideal of someone? When you will be old & about to die, are you be able to reach the level of Ultimate Satisfaction That You Did What You Are Born For?

Think It seriously & then open your eyes, Switch on Light & write your answer. True Honest Answers.

If your all answers are Yes! Which is actually rare but if Yes then you are doing great Job! Congrats!

But if your any answer or all answers are NO. Then…… Then No worries… We will work together on same to make every answer YES!

Don’t worry, your realization of No & desire to make it Yes is the first step to reach your Purpose & Live The Ultimate Life!

We all want YES to all these questions. We all want to live great life. We all want to say, listen & feel excellent about self. The only problem is that when we face any challenge in life, in any form we start sacrificing that Ultimate Purpose/ Goal for sake of momentary relief. We opt for shortcut healing & that way we start sacrificing & then losing our dream. It’s the bitter truth but we all do it.

Let’s promise ourselves that we will not going to use shortcuts & not going to be happy in compromising our purpose of life, our dreams. We will live our dreams, our Purpose & WILL SURELY LIVE THE ULTIMATE LIFE!

But how we actually do it? How we actually do something that we reach our goal?

How? That’s a Big Question but the Answer is very simple ‘BELIEVING SELF’. By developing Unshakable trust on self.  The whole big fat or cute little self-help books about self-confidence, mega living, power of subconscious mind, power of positive thinking, Think & grow rich, Laws of Attraction & all the best seller/excellent books , every motivational workshop, every motivational website, every motivational stuff with lots of idea, different words & definitions end up on this basic key factor ‘BELIEVING SELF’.  Only Thing they want to say in various form is ‘BELIEVING SELF’. THAT’S THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF ENERGY TO ACHIEVE ANYTHING. THAT’S THE MASTER KEY TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS. THAT’S THE ULTIMATE MAGIC TRICK TO REACH YOUR GOAL.

In this article, I’ll give you basic & elaborate essential topic & methods in next articles. If you want something specific please let me know.

We all think we believe ourselves but none of us do it 100%.

Because when we Truly Believe – we are optimistic, we are able to focus, we are able to trick out solutions to every single problem, we grow up that we can handle any damm situation & manage it perfectly, We get all skills. And entire universe start helping us to achieve real results.

So how actually we learn to believe? How actually our mind & heart start working together to believe in the purpose?

Answer is simple, we have to train our mind.

How? The way we train self for anything. Simplest examples,  If you eat in dark, your hand will take food to your mouth not your nose, ear, eyes, etc because our hand is trained to perform that action. You train self to balance on cycle, bikes. You train self to swim & play. Similarly we need to train our mind to perform best and open abundance source of energy to us.

You might not know but this small approx 1400 grams of thing placed on top of your body which we call Brain is the most powerful thing in this world. Yes! your mind is the true source of energy. It is more powerful than your computer, your internet, your smartphone, all cool gadgets you can think of. It’s much much powerful. But problem is we never take care of it & utilize it fully.

I read somewhere “Mind is the worst master & the best slave” and actually find it true. If you train your mind, you will get everything you actually want but if you let it control you, you will end up in many problems. You have to master your mind & train it to Believe in your purpose.

You must have read quote from book ‘The Alchemist’ that “when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”. That’s the truth of life & it’s because of burning true desire of our mind to achieve it. The TRUE PASSION, STRONG BELIEVE IN SELF & YOUR ULTIMATE PURPOSE.

I think you got my point, if not mail me. I’ll write detailed article on this.

Crux is, if you want to achieve your purpose, live your goals you have to train your mind to believe in yourself.  I’ll help you to achieve it but real help can be done by yourself. You have to trust these steps & follow it passionately with positive mind.

I hope you will do it!

So, Let’s train self to believe, train our mind in getting what we actually want:

FIRST THING:-

Promise yourself you will not complain about problems, failures and you will genuinely start finding solutions for every single problem you face. No excuse at all. PROMISE SELF!

If you don’t have time cut less important things, sleep only essential. If don’t have money work extra. If you don’t have skills then learn it. If you are not able to find coach then coach self. If you have emotional problem become emotional intelligent, strong. Any problem, you will give your best to find the solution. First thing you need to do is get this Positive Attitude.

Let me tell you, Initially you may fail in many things but if you try again you will start winning & this give you ULTIMATE SOURCE OF CONFIDENCE & BELIEVE. DO IT! IT’S VERY IMPORTANT.

SECOND THING:-

DESIGN YOUR PATH FOR REACHING YOUR PURPOSE.  

Let’s do it. But WAIT!  DO YOU ACTUALLY REALIZE YOUR ULTIMATE PURPOSE, PASSION, GOAL?  IF NOT, ASK YOURSELF.  FIND THE ANSWER! Ask yourself what you actually want to be & you will get your answer.

IF YOU WANT TO REALIZE & LIVE YOUR PURPOSE, you need to develop habit of writing Diary. Sound boring to many but its important! A Diary either a paper diary or notes on your mobile or tablets but not laptop. Only on things you can carry & place near you when you sleep. Best is real paper diary. It’s the way, don’t try to find shortcut. That’s a waste & not worth it. Do it, you will love it after some time.

1. So on First page:

Write your purpose of life. The actual ultimate purpose in just one paragraph. And read it loud, DO you like your Purpose?  Good! Well Done!

Keep a copy of this Ultimate Purpose in your mobile also, so you can read it anywhere & anytime.

2. Second/ Third Page:

Write your goals in life, ultimate goals which you think you want to achieve anyhow personal goal, professional goal, fun goal, adventure goal, monetary goal & every type of goal.  

3. Next Pages: Write the path to reach your ultimate purpose & ultimate goal. Things to achieve in this month, 1 year, 5 year & 10 year.

4. Next Pages: Do your own SWOT (Strength Weakness, Opportunities & Threats) Analysis, and find out:

 swot

a)      What all you need to achieve your goal, list it.

b)      All negative things stopping you to achieve it people, habits, emotions, behavior, etc

c)       All positive things which help you to achieve it.

d)      What shakes you most in life & make you low?

e)      What motivate you most when you are low?

f)       What is your Strength, Weakness, Trigger points, etc.

Write everything for sure, don’t skip.

To be honest I also tried to skip things once & then I failed. I redo & realized that it truly works and even all people I coached see the actual difference once they believe in this process & follow it regularly.

But why I’m telling you to write this?

Actually to train your mind & condition it.

Before starting actual training let me tell you one thing frankly, if you will not going to trust in this, your mind will always reject all this & you will waste your time. You have to trust & take it seriously.

I hope you will do it seriously!

So now Let’s go to main exercise for ultimate living:

1. First exercise: You need to keep that ultimate purpose in written with you all the time. Read as many time as you can atleast for a month, especially just before you hit the bed & just after you open your eyes. And whenever you are free. After a month only the time you hit the bed & you wake up.

Sound uncool, i know but do it! You will thank me forever for this uncool stuff when you start seeing the ultimate success results. So trust me & Do it! Give this daily dose of your ultimate purpose to self without failing.

2. Second exercise: As you wake up & see mirror, give big smile to self and say one good thing about self, thing you love about self.

Good Morning Dear! You just started your day with a believe in self, a positive thought & love for self. Well Done! Have a happy positive day!

3. Third exercise: In morning, while having your morning tea/ coffee/ energy drink/ juice/ beer whatever you take, just plan your day: Important things to do & less important things to do. Use this plan and don’t forget to pamper & award yourself once you achieve it. This daily exercise help you to automatically train your mind to be best time manager.

4. Fourth exercise: Before stepping out of your morning tea mode, promise yourself that no matter what happen today, how easy or challenging things show up you will handle them easily, perfectly & positively. Say to self ‘I have all capabilities, I BELIEVE IN MYSELF & I’LL BE THE WINNER’!

This way you condition your mind to do things with positive attitude & full focus.

5. Fifth exercise: You need to do is whatever you do, do it with full heart. There is no point in doing halfhearted things. If you don’t find your heart in anything & it’s not aligned to your purpose, leave that & do what you love to do & is aligned to your ultimate purpose.

6. Sixth exercise: Enjoy your Day, laugh a lot, surround yourself with positive people, try to do one thing every day which make you feel proud & positive.

7. Seventh exercise: When you are going to bed, take out your diary & see where you reach, what weakness you learn to overpower, what strength you add-on to self, what good things you did today, what negative things you removed, what other negative things you feel today & how you will work on negative things to make it positive. How will you work to add more strength to self, what you will do to enrich yourself to reach your Goals. DO This Seriously!

8. Eighth exercise: Read your Ultimate Purpose & Sleep with the thought that you will surely make your life positive, happy & will surely achieve your Ultimate Purpose!

Just 8 steps, so easy & simple!

Follow this for 20 days without cheating a single time & tell me what you see. If you face problems, mail me. I’ll help you. If you want you can share this with your dear ones & ask their support to let you reach your goal.

I’m sure if you do this seriously within 2 months’ time you will see everything so positive & a very different, Confident personality. The best  of your Personality! You will surly start seeing it!

And if you follow this sincerely, you will achieve what you want, you will reach your goals, your inner strength increase, you will gain confidence, nothing can take you away from your ultimate dream & you will be very happy!

So, Give it a shot & don’t forget to share results with me. If you want you can mail or comment. Its upto you. But do share your success story & motivate other people to follow same.

Hope you will like my article & it will help you to add-on something good in your life 🙂

All The Very Best!

Stay True, Stay You!

NitikaS

Nics(Nitika/ Neha)

Help to Stay Motivated & Master Difficult Situation!

“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.” 

Sometimes life hit you with a brick on head. And you started bleeding not only outside but inside too.

Do you feel the same way?

Well we all do feel same at some point of Life.

Suddenly everything starts going wrong. Life doesn’t interest us to a good level. At that time when everything seems so bad with dead-end, we broke down & start feeling helpless & depress. It happens to all & it hurts.

PAIN is something which we can’t resist; we have to go through it. Some people broke down to the level that they take extreme negative steps to avoid pain & escape situation but is it really worth it??  NO! It’s not worth it & to be honest it’s the stupidest idea. So just throw it out of your mind.

Every life has problems & everyone goes through big traumas of life and some people go through many traumas of life.

Every great person has gone through the setback & extreme condition once. You have to go through this test and escaping or dulling yourself is not the solution & can never be the solution. Pain is a good teacher & it changes your life forever. Every big struggle comes for big achievements.

If you don’t like the situation focus on changing it. Remember ‘No condition is Permanent’.

It’s not the Dead End of your life & in rarest situation if you feel it’s a dead-end then you have to find U-turn to get to the new road. You always have the option.

You have to master the situation, you have to master the change of life while living it & not surviving it. You just cannot afford to lose your positivity & life to the situation which is just temporary.

Situation will change, its law of nature and you are reminded of this every single day that darkness will go off & beautiful morning will glow.

Happiness is not absence of problem. Happiness is ability to face problem, deal with it, master it & change it.

Here are the list of some useful tips which will help you to stay motivated, master situation & handle it in a better manner:

1.First analyze, accept & then change: Most common mistake of life is we avoid problems till we can. If you have a situation may be emotional, physical, psychological, professional, financial, legal any difficult situation. First thing you need to do is analysis it & accept it. Analysis situation & its impact on you and accept that this is the situation & you have to face it.

It’s actually a game of mind, if you confuse your mind by avoiding it will not give you solution & the very moment you tell your mind that this is the situation & need to come out of it. Your mind starts working toward change & gives you all possible ideas to change it & help you to do so.

2. Stay Positive: You cannot control what is happens to you but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.  So take courage & be positive. This is temporary situation & you can change it only with positive mind & courage.

Every Pain is part of new learning & is a way towards new life.

3.Believe: Everything happen for a special purpose, trust your god! You may be hurt rite now but one day you will feel that it was the best thing happened to you as it change your life & make it more happening.  Just Believe that everything will be fine soon.

4. Work towards change: No matter how dull & bad you feel, get up & start working on things. This will help you to stay motivated, focused & work toward solutions. Remember thousand miles start with single step.

5.Stay Motivated: For staying motivated search for motivational stuffs & people, it always works. Always read motivational stuffs and get connected to positive motivational people. It actually infuses positive hormones in body which help you & your mind to remain positive, calm & focused. It also help you alot to get back your zeal & find solution in a better manner.

6. Worrying & complaining, It’s a waste: Your worrying, complaining will not going to change your situation, infact you will waste your today & also chances to have better tomorrow. So stop worrying & complaining, its ok that things go wrong, now just focus on solution.

7. Keep going with Patience: It’s famous saying “if you are going through hell, keep going”. Every single effort you made will help you to solve your issues. Good things takes time but it will happen for sure, that’s a guarantee you will certainly going to see good time again. So just have patience & keep going.

8. Be Chill: You have to go through it & its truth, you cannot change it but you have choice to be sad & survive or to be happy, live & learn to master situation . Best trick to be Chill is if you are sad force yourself to do things which you really like may be following hobby & passion or going out with friends. Do it, after some time you feel lighter & it will help you to find new hope.

9. Laughter Works: It’s a part of Be Chill but I’m mentioning it separately because it’s the best medicine for your body, mind & soul. Always take out time for good laughter. I know during hard times we all feel like crying & sitting alone wearing our thinking caps & depressing caps. But you have to cut this, take it as a medicine whenever you start feeling low, push yourself to get some positive, happy vibes with help of laughter. Just go for anything that makes you laugh & spread smile on your face may be watching comedy serial or movie , reading jokes or hanging with jolly friends. Sounds weird sometimes but it will infuse endorphin & make you look at better side. Make sure you do it daily.

10. Always remind yourself these things:

a)      Sometimes life closes doors not because you don’t deserve but just because it’s time to move forward for much better things.  And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force us to.

b)      Every great success requires some type of worthy struggle to get there.  Good things take time.  Be patient.  Everything is going to come together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.

c)       You always get a second chance.  You just have to take it and make the best of it.

d)      Every great successful person once struggle through setbacks & extreme pains but they make things happen & become so successful that you are reading their story to remain motivated. So stay focused as you have to write your inspirational successful story soon.

e)      Last but not least, there is no dead-end, but if you feel that then take U-turn & find the New Road. You always have the option, so take it & come out anyhow with flying colors. Always have positive approach: IF OPPORTUNITY IS NOT KNOCKING THEN ITS TIME TO BUILD THE DOOR!

Hope you find it useful!

All the very best!

Stay Strong, Stay Focused & Stay Content!

NitikaS

Winners never Quit! Try it until you achieve it!

Only Difference between Winners & Loser is that Winners never Quit! Even after facing so many failures, they continue their efforts till they Win! Till they realize their dreams, till they achieve their Goals!

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If you have a dream, no matter what everyone say, no matter what happen next, no matter how much situation screw you & how much failure you face in life. You have to trust yourself, continue your work & win the race as never before.

Don’t let people opinion make you weak or questionable. Don’t let failures make you quit. Even if you fail, you have to give it a shot with full determination & with your entire heart, mind, body & soul.

Of course you can fail & fall. Failure is a part of success. If you fail, bounce back even strong. You have to keep your eyes on goal & try until you succeed. Try It & Achieve it!

Just refuse to be poor unnoticed common person and don’t let stigmas of the society pull you down.

Don’t let even a pinch of ridicule ever rob your confidence & faith.

You are born to achieve your dreams! You are meant for this!

You are the one who badly needs it. You are the one who live it everyday!

You have to do it! Not for others but for Yourself!  You owe it to Yourself!

So collect your all strength, courage, guts or whatever you call it. Be Yourself & Trust Yourself !

Just Go for it!

Win like never before!

All The Best!

Stay Focused, Stay Strong & Stay Content!

NitikaS