You cannot build yourself up by tearing others down.

“You cannot build yourself up by tearing others down.” – Anonymous


It’s entirely your choice.

“You can’t control people from throwing stones on you. But when someone throw stone on you, you have four choices:

  • To get hurt by it & bleed.
  • To protect self & decamp.
  • To catch the stone & throw back on them.
  • To take the stone & make a way or a bridge or a foundation or something good for yourself out of it.

You can do anything, It’s entirely your choice.”  

– Nics (NitikaS/ Neha)

When there’s something you really want.

“If there’s just one piece of advice I can give you, it’s this – When there’s something you really want, fight for it, don’t give up no matter how hopeless it seems. And when you’ve lost hope, ask yourself if 10 years from now, you’re gonna wish you gave it just one more shot. Because the best things in life, they don’t come free.”

– Greys Anatomy


Help people, it makes you feel good inside.

I’m so proud to be part of family where each one is trying to do something good for Humanity. I’m proud to be part of family that try to do something good for people not out of compulsion but by heart and take out their time to do something which can add value to people life.

My Dad always work to develop villages & tribal people, promote education, hygiene, provide water, good food & better facilities to people,  helps farmers for better production & selling of grains, arranged so many camps like eye camp, blood donation camps, health camps education & skill camps. So many that I even can’t count.

My Dad recently become president of Lions club & he is going to arrange so much to develop poor people in Rajasthan, India.

My mom support him & all of us to do all such activities, suggest best camps to arrange & help people while camps. My mom is part of dad club & support him in promoting & successfully arranging such good camps & activities.

My sister is a doctor & she can work in big hospitals but she choose to work for village people and always promote health, hygiene to those people. She arranged various free camps & campaign to help poor people. Jiju & Dad along with entire family help her in getting these camp arranged.

My Jiju (Brother in law) run his business but always arrange blood camps, water, education & other camps with his JCI club. My Jiju & Sis work with their club to promote such activities. My Jiju support me in my women empowerment programs. He also support Dad, Mom, Sis & bro in their work.

My brother runs his software business but he helps Dad in his works and support me in running Self Defense Programs for making women self equipped & self-dependent. He help me in promoting a safer world for women. He run fitness club to promote good health to people.

I’m Entrepreneur & run various business. But I also run Women Empowerment Programs, Self defense programs for women, promote education to poor people in Gurgaon, Skill poor to have better living, help old age people to have happy life, work with old age homes & orphanage. I run free self-defense workshops for school children across country. In college as a NSS head arranged so many camps. I run motivational blog & online counseling services to help people in their bad days & help them to achieve their goals in life. I try to promote as much as I can. Now i’m becoming Organ Donor.

We all donate blood every year & promote Organ donation. We feel so good.

Even we are damm busy in our work, business & life but we make sure to take out time for such things. We as a family and as a human know that we have responsibilities towards our society, our planet & humanity. We try to play our little part with full responsibility to make happy world for all.

Seriously proud to be part of such family.

Hope every family do that & make a better world.

I remember blood donation ad line “kar ke dekho, achcha lagta hai” (Do it, you will feel good)

I request you guys to do something, may be a little bit to add life & add something to Humanity.

– NitikaS

Writing is a very responsible job.

“Writing is a very responsible job. Writing has a power to change someone life. Your every single word should be towards creating new world to people & help them in every possible manner.

I wish I’ll always be able to write something good that can add a little life & new hope to everyone.”

– Nics (NitikaS/ Neha)


As a Woman

I see people talk about woman empowerment in corporate & social world. Lots of campaigns run around same subject but still find news full of crime against woman.  As a corporate & social woman, I believe that the woman empowerment practices will be more successful if we are treated equally.  I’m sure, many of the women & even men across globe agrees with this. I guess all woman want to say this to all man:

Dear Man,

As a Woman, We don’t need special status, reservation, special treatment or special favors. We just need equal status & equal chance.

As a Woman, we don’t need your sympathy nor need your special attentions. We need our Brilliance,  Excellence, Hard work & Passion to get acknowledged & noticed over our Beauty or Body.

As a Woman, we can take out 48 hour from that little 24 hours & we are happy with that. We are happy to be your life, mother, wife, sister, daughter, best friend & lover but we are simply not ready to be something more just because we want to be big.

As a Woman, we are just not ready to spread our legs to spread our reach, get big status or to expand our bank balance. We don’t treat man as part of our Financial or Career Plan because we believe in our potential and we request you not to expect from us that way.

As a Woman, we want to be treated equally on the basis of our Mind, Energy, Capabilities, Hard Work & Intelligence.

As a Woman, we are emotional but when it comes to crisis or tough conditions, we are the one who stand by you, become your support & source of strength. We are much tougher than you think.

As a Woman, we just need to be treated as a Human and not as a part of joke or pleasure.

As a Woman, we can make your world more Beautiful & make our planet more Prosperous. We just needed to be treated in Right Manner.

As a Woman, we have power to nurture & grow the life. And we know that without us you just cant survive & nor the human species but we are still humble & take this god power with Full Responsibility.

As a Woman, we know & are confident that we are Talented, Bold, Sharp, Intelligent enough to handle Business in the better way and at the same time are Emotional, Caring & Lovable enough to handle your world beautifully.

As a Woman, We just request you to take off your X-Ray Specs and look us from the bigger, healthier & better version of you. We are great partners, coworkers, friends, family & Above all great Human.

As a Woman, We just want you to treat us fairly & behave with us as ‘A Real Man’. In our words, we just want you to be ‘The Gentleman’.

With Hope,